Beijing to Suzhou, Saturday, March 31, 2018

The Summer Palace was a formal royal retreat most associated with Empress Dowager Cixi. Now it is a lovely oasis in Beijing with pavilions, bridges, walkways and gardens scattered along a huge lake. We walked around looking at the pavilions with the paintings on the ceiling that tell the history of the palace. We sat at the edge of the lake while the boys looked for fish and just did some people watching, many locals and their children come here to spend time. It was a nice peaceful time in the middle of a bustling city.

We had a flight to Shanghai in the late afternoon so stopped at Olympic Park. What most people remember is the Beijing National Stadium aka the “Birds Nest” where the 2008 Olympic opening and closing ceremonies took place, also many athletic events as it can hold 91,000 people.

The flight to Shanghai was pretty quick, just 2 hours and 10 minutes. Shanghai is a great base for exploring three of China’s prettiest and most historic cities in the Jiangnan region which means “south of the Yangtze”. So it is delta country with rivers and canals through the beautiful cities.

From there we drove about an hour and a half to Suzhou, checked in our hotel and passed out!

Beijing and The Great Wall, Friday, March 30, 2018

Today was the day we were all really looking forward to, the highlight of the trip, visiting the Great Wall!!! The night before and the morning of the boys kept saying, “I can’t believe we are going to the Great Wall of China!”

It definitely is majestic, slithering through the mountainous terrain of China and one of the Seven Wonders of the World. Some myths are that it is one single continuous structure or that it can be seen from space, even so it is a mind boggling achievement. Also amazing that they believe building started around 453 B.C.!

The boys were practically running to get to it, it was so cute. There were flat and sloping areas and uneven steps, some of the steps were very steep so it was scary at times and I didn’t look back! There were also watch towers every so often where you could stop and admire the scenery or just catch your breath. The boys were just so fast and so excited to explore and cover as much of the wall as they could.

Check that off the bucket list ✔️

One of the funniest parts of our time on the Wall was when a group of Chinese ladies wanted to take a picture with me. They were nice so I said yes. Well this turned into a huge thing, they were getting all excited, fighting over who got to take a picture with me next, cutting in front of each other, posing me, so that I had my arms around them like we were best friends. It was so funny, I got the biggest kick out of their excitement. Then we hugged at the end and I was free again,now I know how Grant feels when they touch his hair and take pictures with him!

Our hotel has natural hot springs on the property so when we got back we headed straight there. They have a beautiful spa set up inside and you get dressed and head out the back to the springs. There were about 10 different “pools” of varying temperatures and colors. We were instructed to start out in the milder light green springs and they were really nice, very comfortable and easy to get into. Then we were ready for warmer, so we tried the orangey colored springs and they were definitely warmer, like a perfect bath. After that it was time for some serious heat, the darker green springs. You had to just start with your feet, then halfway up your calves, then to the knee, etc. Took a while but once you were in it was amazing. Couldn’t stay in too long but it really felt great on your muscles after that climb today.

There was also a fish pedicure pond where you sit on the edge with your feet dangling in. The little fish eat the dead skin off your feet….eewwww! The boys did this in Bangkok and thought it was so cool so they spent most of their time there. Not necessarily with their feet in but playing with and watching the fish!

First Day in Beijing, March 29, 2018

We skipped a day after flying over the International date line. Sleeping never felt so good, it wasn’t straight through, strange dreams and woke up a few times.

Breakfast was a dream for us, noodle soups and every kind of Chinese food you could imagine. I think the boys would have rather stayed there all morning instead of going out to explore Beijing!

We started out at Tian’anmen Square which is the world’s largest public square, the size of 90 football fields and can hold about a half a million people! We were instructed to not to talk about the student protests in 1989 and the aftermath by our tour guide. She asked us not even to ask her anything about it while we are there because there are many plain clothed police officers and she would be in trouble. She said that we know more about it than her because they can’t find any information about it in books or online. I like the description of it being the world’s largest patio designed to be big and bombastic but basically a boring Stalinist spectacle.

It was IMMENSE and the gate to the north is the Gate of Heavenly Peace, most emblematic of Chinese State grandeur. It is also most famous for the portrait of Mao that hangs above the central door. This position was once reserved for emperors but was the spot where he declared the founding of the Peoples Republic in October 1949. His body is still there and they put it on display everyday but just recently they changed it so that only Chinese people could see it, no more for tourists.

Building for the Forbidden City started in the 1400’s. It is an almost 8 million square foot complex, the largest palace in the world. It’s called the Forbidden City because it used to be only for the Emperors, now it is open to the public. There were so many huge squares and each building was a gate and after we went through that gate it was yet another square, I could not believe the size of it. I love the architecture and the bright red colors, and under the eves there were such vibrant blues and greens and many colors painted on them. The Imperial Gardens were very pretty and the Magnolia trees were just starting to bloom so it just added to the beauty.

The Temple of Heaven makes me think of EPCOT when I was a child, it’s replica is in the China Pavillon. I was always fascinated by it and spent lots of time there exploring, shopping and eating…it made me feel like I was in China and gave me dreams of going there one day. Well today was the day one of my childhood dreams came true, I got to see the real Temple of Heaven. There is a beautiful park with rose gardens and full of ancient, tangled cypress trees as old as 800! Locals spend the day practicing tai chi and playing board games or cards. The Temple of Heaven was built about the same time as the Forbidden City, 1400’s but burned down and was rebuilt. There is not a single nail in the structure, it’s held up by 28 massive fir pillars from Oregon. The striking ceiling has guided panels and intricate painted brackets.

Peking Duck is one of Beijing’s most famous dishes. It’s soft and succulent with crispy red skinned meat. We watched the chefs cut it in a specific pattern with a specific number of pieces, it is an art. You wrap the slices with cucumber and scallion sticks and hoisin sauce in a delicate pancake, almost like you would a burrito. It was absolutely amazing, nothing like the Peking Duck I’ve had in the US.

Next stop were the narrow winding roads of the Hutongs, the original inner city homes of Beijing. The real estate is super expensive but the people who live there don’t usually sell, they keep it in the family and pass it down from generation to generation. There are some that have left due to the desire for indoor plumbing and heating or because of the government money incentives to leave so they can use the land. Each home has four single story rectangular buildings surrounding a courtyard with one door at the south facing corner. A whole family usually with grandparents, their children, grandchildren would live there and there would be a family shop. Where each generation sleeps depends on Feng Shui. The Communist Revolution ended most of the Hutong living and subdivided all these homes to fit six separate families in each one. Many have also been leveled in the past 20 years due to the growth of the city. While most are gone, preservation has started and many have been restored and are becoming trendy.

Rickshaws still pedal through the sleepy alleys and it was a great way to peek into the daily life of the Hutongs. Then we spent some time in the evening shopping and exploring one of the alleys that had great shops and food. What a day!

China, Travel from Los Angeles to Beijing, Tuesday, March 27-28, 2018

Started out leaving the house an hour late…traffic and security weren’t as bad as I thought they would be. Got to the airport lounge and only had an hour to eat and drink.

Air China boarding was not fun, felt like Southwest but lines were haphazardly in groups of 20 rows. So because I was in the lounge sipping Martinis and eating finger sandwiches I ended up at the back of the line. Took off about a half hour late, boys were content with their headphones, DS and entertainment system.

Big thing for me is that there was no liquor, only beer and wine! Had I known I would have been prepared…but the beer was good so I can’t complain.

Dinner was chicken or beef and rice. Nothing special, typical airline food. Enough to fill you up so you are not hungry. Dessert was Haagen Daaz ice cream cups, which I detest…

It’s funny how we are following the sun, it’s 8:30 Pacific time but still full sun as we go up over Alaska, past the Aleutians and cross the Bering Strait. Kids are content with books, in seat entertainment and electronics. I did nap for about an hour or so and now watching a movie I have never seen, believe it or not, Moonstruck.

Another similar meal before I slept for about 4 hours. Waking up for landing was not fun, I was so tired but definitely excited!

The hotel was beautiful and has hot springs all around the property. In our room there was a huge tub for 2 or 3 people that is filled by the touch of a button with hot mineral springs water. What an amazing way to relax after a 13 hour flight and a missed night of sleep!

Hong Kong and Home

Hong Kong, China

We had to get up at 4:30am today to get to Singapore airport by 6am…ugh….didn’t sleep too well because all I thought about was getting up early. Surprisingly the boys got up really fast and easily for a change! We only had time for a quick cup of coffee and breakfast in the airport lounge. Singapore airport is gorgeous, it’s huge and full of flowers and orchids and high end boutiques. Everything is new and clean, just like the city. Our first flight is about 4 hours to Hong Kong on Cathay Pacific. We flew them over from LAX and they are amazing, now I know why they are the number one airline in the world. Once we get to Hong Kong we have an hour layover and then a 14 hour flight non stop to LAX. That’s where we will need to do some napping! We leave Asia at 8am and get into LAX at 11:15am the same day because we lose a day as we cross the International Date Line. The second leg was tougher than it was coming over! Coming over was during the day, we left at 1pm and arrived at 7pm, just in time to go to sleep and we had no jet lag. Going from Hong Kong to LAX we left early, lost a day and got back home at 11:15am so it was important to sleep a lot on the flight back because we missed a nights sleep. I did pretty good and took two long naps, Grant slept for a long time and Rowan a little, I don’t think Jeff slept much at all. We’ll have to see how we feel. It was a great trip and I am happy to be going home but sad that our trip is over. It feels like so long ago that we arrived in Asia, can’t believe the month we spent there is over. It was an amazing month and so many great experiences for us and some great time spent together as a family. I think we hit almost all the cities on our wish list (see pic). Now we have to figure out where our next adventure will be 🙂

Singapore

Singapore, Singapore

I was impressed with Singapore from the moment we landed in Changi Airport! What a nice and huge airport. There are orchids everywhere since it’s their national flower and lots of other flowers too. Singapore means Lions City because the first person to sail to Singapore from Indonesia in the 13th century thought he saw a lion-most likely a tiger since they roamed the land until the 1900’s. The area went back and forth between the Dutch, British and Portuguese during the Colonial times. Until a Brit named Sir Stamford Raffles fought for a halfway point for the British to have between British India and China and fell in love with the island at the tip of the peninsula. Fifty years later they are celebrating their independence. We stayed at the Grand Hyatt in Orchard Road-the main shopping street lined with amazing multilevel malls and high end shops, kind of like 5th Avenue in New York. All of the malls have these huge food courts in the basement and not fast food outlets like our food courts but fresh local food! We got lucky and were upgraded to a Grand Suite so it made our last city very comfortable. Plus we were in a great location. As usual, it was hot but no rain while we were there-possibly at night but nothing to interfere with our plans. The skyline is gorgeous, the first night we went down to Marina Bay and took in the sights there, went to the top of the Sands hotel and saw the who skyline from the 57th floor then watched a laser light show on the bay. This year is the 50th Anniversary of independence for Singapore so there are so many fun events going on. As usual here in Asia, the local food was amazing, we tasted everything we could! We would all order something different and share. It was fun doing it in different parts of the city too like Little India and Chinatown. They were really pretty little areas of Singapore, also Arab street with a golden mosque. We had to go to Raffles Hotel to drink a Singapore Sling. It was actually a perfect time when we went, it was mid afternoon and hot so we needed a drink anyway! The front of the hotel is really nice because you feel like you are back in the colonial days. Sikh doormen stand in front in full uniform, it is a sight to see! The Long Bar had such a great atmosphere, I loved it. What I didn’t love were the prices of the drinks!! Since this is a tourist must, they really take advantage and a Singapore Sling is about $22. It isn’t very good either-well it just tasted like fruit punch. The picture explains the history of the drink and why it was made for women. The other thing I liked about this area and even in Malaysia and other parts, were the shop houses. They are narrow terraced buildings with a covered area in front on the sidewalk. They are 2 or three storeys high and share a wall so they are built in blocks. They were very popular in the early days of the cities where they could have a shop downstairs and live upstairs. Many are now lovingly restored and gorgeous, some have such pretty colors too. We saw a lot on Emerald Hill, an upscale neighborhood in the city. On our last night in the city we went to Gardens in the Bay. We barely saw a quarter of it because it is so large! There are two huge areas under domes, one of them a cloud forest. Elevated walkways to see the gardens from above too. We watched the light show at night, it was set to music and larger than life audio animatronic trees that light with the music and are covered in live plants. It reminded me of a Disney light show. It was a beautiful way to end our magical Asian adventure!

Eating through Penang

Gelugor, Malaysia

We spent our last day exploring the small city of Georgetown. It is the capital of Penang and Penang is an island right off the coast of Malaysia in the Straits of Mallaca attached to the Andaman Sea. It is known as one of the best places to eat in the world. The fusion of the Malay, Chinese and Indian cultures and its location along the Spice Trade route made its food legendary. As you can tell by the pictures, it is amazing. We stopped at a famous pastry shop and tried a few local delicacies. I was lucky enough to have a Chinese man help me and describe what everything was and what they tasted like. I was afraid of the salted egg pastry but it actually wasn’t bad, salty and sweet. But the best was the Trishaw Egg Custard! Very light and flaky pastry with what seemed like hundreds of layers all holding a warm gooey egg custard that was dreamy! I wish we could have spent some more time here because I don’t feel like I experienced enough of their food!

Grants 12th Birthday – Siem Reap & Penang

Prasat Bakong, Cambodia

Grant had a whirlwind 12th birthday this year! On his birthday we were traveling most of the day so we decided to celebrate on the day before. As you know from the previous post, we spent the day exiting the temples at Angkor Wat in Siem Reap, Cambodia. Then Grant wanted to go back to the hotel and go swimming and relax. As we opened the hotel door there were balloons all over and on the bed it spelled out “Happy Birth Day Grant” beautifully displayed in hand cut pieces of green bamboo. His face lit up when he saw it, I was so happy to see him excited! He spent the rest of the day swimming and relaxing, just what a kid wants to do! Then the wind picked up so fast that it knocked stuff over at the pool! We went in and enjoyed a great thunderstorm with lots of lightning! At dinner that night we had champagne and a beautiful dinner, the boys were very happy and in a great mood! Rowan was even hugging Grant 🙂 Then they came out singing with a cake. They weren’t that good at singing Happy Birthday and the tune was something totally different but we didn’t mind. Then at breakfast the next day he got happy face pancakes! The day of travel was long but Grant loves flying so he thought it was special to be taking a few flights on his actual birthday! We arrived in Penang in the afternoon and we’re ready to eat! Penang is one of the greatest food destinations in the world. It is a small island off the coast of the Malaysian peninsula. So food is a fusion of Chinese, Indian, Malay and more! We went to the Red Garden food hawker-food paradise in the middle of town. It was AMAZING, probably 50 stalls of all different kinds of food, you order from a bunch of different ones tell them your table number, you sit in the middle at a table and they bring them to you as they are ready while your waiter brings your drinks. There was so much to choose from it was so hard but we managed to pick a few and all share. There was also live entertainment, some singers and music on the stage. It was a lot of fun and very popular there were tables of people just drinking and talking and having a good time. We certainly did! What we ate is shown in the pictures and descriptions are here: Hokkien Hae Mee- flash fried noodles with a flavorful broth, prawns, chicken, squid, fish cakes, hard boiled egg and hot chili paste. It’s a very popular dish here. Char Kway Teow – total comfort food, big, fat, flat and sloppy noodles with prawns, cockles, bean sprouts, Chinese chives, egg, soy sauce chili, belachan and all fried in pork lard-not for the health conscious! Assam Laksa – one of the most famous Penang dishes and ranked 7th of the best 100 foods in the world! The broth is made by poaching mackerel with tamarind, lemongrass, chilies and shrimp paste and spooned over rice vermicelli. We got back to the hotel and there were even more birthday surprises for Grant! They decorated his bed with candy and balloons and had a nice piece of birthday cake waiting for him. I think he had a really nice 12th birthday 🙂

Siem Reap, Cambodia

Siem Reap, Cambodia

Landing here felt like landing in a Caribbean airport years ago! It looked tropical with Asian style roofs that curl up on the edges and no gangway to walk onto the plane, just walk across the Tarmac and up the stairs into the plane. The immigration officials were very gruf and have no personality at all, they just yell and scowl, a little scary! Cambodia has a Monarchy with a King who has no power. The Prime Minister rules “as a democracy” on paper but it is run more like Communism or a Dictatorship. But after their horrible past and the Khmer Rouge, this is much better. Unfortunately the country is still littered with land mines and many Cambodians have missing limbs. Many NGO’s have done a lot to de-mine areas and Princess Diana was a very strong advocate and supporter of these programs. There has been a lot of progress but you still can’t wander off in rural areas especially close to the border. The tourist areas are safe thankfully. We visited a land mine museum that was very interesting. The money raised helps support an orphanage on the property that houses and schools children victims of land mines. The locals are some of the kindest and most gracious people I have ever met. I really enjoyed every interaction with each Cambodian I met. The staff at our hotel were falling over themselves to help us, our guide and driver were so patient and helpful. The heartbreaking part was the children beggars who try to sell postcards to tourists for $1 each. Some are as young as 4 or 5 and their English is pretty good. They follow you around and you can see their desperation. Many times we gave them part of our meal that we weren’t going to finish and their eyes lit up. It seems that they don’t get much to eat so that is why they push so hard but they aren’t rude. All the people really made an impression on me in a positive way. The main reason for traveling to Siem Reap is to visit the worlds largest religious site and a UNESCO World Heritage Site-Angkor Wat. I have dreamt about visiting here since I was young and can’t believe I am finally here! There was always something that interested me about Cambodia, not just Angkor Wat but the Khmer Rouge regime and the killing fields and the horrors they endured up to the people helping de-mine the country. We hired a guide and a driver for our time here. It is really needed, there are so many temples to see in these complexes that you really need to tailor your visit to what you are interested in and how much in depth you want to go. Plus it is brutally hot so you need to get there at sunrise to get a head start and end by 12. The van is also needed to drop you off and pick you up, hold your bags, keep cold water, etc. These guys do it everyday so they know the ins and outs. Since we have the boys, we kept things easy, I read up a lot the night before so the guide didn’t have to go through too much with the boys. But he did tailor some fun history towards them. He was a very patient and wise man, he is a former school teacher and has many books written on the temples us he loves photography so he showed us all the good shots and at what angle for the current light! Loved it, and he took our pictures. Poor Grant complained the whole first day but I thought he was being a baby because of the heat. We got back to the hotel and he had a 102.7 fever and slept for about 5 hours, poor thing, I felt so bad an apologized to him and snuggled with him until he went to sleep. We got his fever down and he was ready to go to the pool where we relaxed for the rest of the day. That’s how we spent each day, up way too early, sweat at the temples but stand in awe at each one. Nothing else could make me endure that heat, humidity and still air! Then back to the resort for a shower, nap then pool. Visiting the temples took a lot out of you but was worth every minute. The most memorable was making it to Angkor Wat before sunrise, up at 4, at the temple by 5 and sunrise at 5:30….I’m so happy I got my lazy butt up and out. Our resort was really nice, not a large chain but had all the amenities and local charm. The food was great and the spa was so relaxing! The traditional Cambodian massage is so different but just as nice as others. You get dressed in a loosely fitted “uniform” and get on a cushy mat on the floor. Your clothes stay on and there is no oil. They work your body and move and stretch it in addition to massage. It was a great experience, especially the different teas served before and after the massage. The restaurant served local Cambodian food which was really good! They also offered “western food” but who wants a cheeseburger in Cambodia?? Our guide brought us to some great little spots for lunch totally off the tourist circuit-most memorable! The pictures speak for themselves, besides looking at the whole picture, look at the intricate details carved into the walls, columns, window and door frames. Then remember that Angkor Wat was built in 967 AD! They estimate that there were more than 20,000 people who lived inside the complex just to maintain the temple. It used to be covered in red lacquer and you can see some parts of it still. The temples also had a lot of looting over the years since they were uncovered from overgrown jungle in the late 1800’s-early 1900’s. During the height of the civilization they estimate that there were over a million people living in the area. Today there aren’t that many people living here even with all the tourism that is here now, just amazing to think about that! There are almost 400 temple complexes in this area and we only saw 4 or 5!

Saigon

Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

Another big city, Saigon is the biggest located in the south. It is also newer than the capital Hanoi. They still don’t like each other but can’t really talk about it. Since the fall of Saigon in 1975, two years after America left, Vietnam has been ruled by the Communist Party from the north. The south wasn’t happy to be defeated by the north and the north is very happy to have the south now too thus expanding their reach. Most people work for the government and you won’t get any information from them. The few that don’t work for the government, like tour guides for example, will talk, especially southerners. The government has their hand in everything and they don’t like it, especially email and Facebook. The Internet is heavily censored so they don’t see a lot of news, only select things. Plus they watch who they are friends with and what they are saying if they aren’t happy they will be called in. Most of the police are corrupt and the traffic police make a lot of money detaining people for bogus traffic offenses and since they usually have plans, they hold them a long time until they finally pay them to let them go. I am sure this is money that never gets reported to the government! Then when people warn others on Facebook about areas of these traffic stings, they are punished! If you noticed, the city is officially called Ho Chi Minh City because he was the leader of the north and who wanted to reunify the north and south under the Communist Government. Up north in Hanoi he is a hero, down south he is not but they have to pretend he is. They never wanted him or to change the name of the city, so they still call it Saigon. Up north and officially it is called Ho Chi Minh City. Our guide was amazing in the fact that at a lot of the tourist attractions, he skipped all of the HCM statues and propaganda films about how they won the war, and their defeat of America. He was just as unhappy with these tributes and monuments as we would be. The city is separated into districts similar to the way they do it in France with most of the tourist attractions in district 1. Mostly everything was in walking distance so it made things easy for us, especially in the heat. We took a trip to the Cu Chi Tunnels and saw some of the tens of thousands of miles of tunnels in the area northwest of Saigon. The Viet Cong, or VC, were the Communist guerrillas from the north, who dug these tunnels and used them to their advantage against the better supplied American and south Vietnamese. It was amazing to see the tunnels and to try to imagine what it was like for our troops here in this brutally hot, humid jungle climate. The boys loved crawling through the tunnels, I found them a bit claustrophobic! Then when I saw 4 inch long millipedes all over I had no interest in any more tunnels!! Jeff had fun getting to shoot some of the guns used back then like the AK-47, wow was it loud!! We went out to the Chill Bar at the top of a high rise hotel and it was just beautiful! The skyline of Saigon is gorgeous and we had Martinis with a very clear view of the city. A great experience. Some typical tourist attractions to the gorgeous Post Office that looked like an opera house! Amazing architecture and beauty. Notre Dam cathedral is in the middle of the city and beautiful, most of the building materials were brought from France during their long occupation. They converted a lot of poor Vietnamese during the colonial era so you still have a small community of Roman Catholic Vietnamese. How does this work in a Communist government? They are free to choose their religions but they will never have jobs working for the government. The gates in front of the Reunification Palace are a very famous place in history. It is where the Northern tanks crashed through in 1975, two years after America withdrew. They weren’t able to compete with the north who was supplied by Russia and China and without our support anymore, the fell to the north and Communism. After spending a week in this country, I still feel like I am just skimming the surface of understanding the people and politics. There are still so many places we didn’t see in this large country that would allow more understanding. I would have to come back and see more of the central area and countryside. I am happy that the people we have spent time with have been very friendly and gracious.